Still Further Along the Road Less Traveled

Still Further Along the Road Less Traveled

  “When my beloved first stands before me naked, all open to my sight, there is a feeling throughout the whole of me; awe.  Why?   If sex is no more than an instinct, why don’t I simply feel horny or hungry?   Such simple hunger would be quite...
Edith Wharton and the Nine Rooms of Happiness

Edith Wharton and the Nine Rooms of Happiness

Sex and Eros The average adult heterosexual man, in the average relationship with an adult woman, doesn’t ask for so much –   and doesn’t have so much to give.   He’d like a good meal, a little appreciation for how well he replaced the...
NYC Sex Therapist Diary:  Dining and Differentiation

NYC Sex Therapist Diary: Dining and Differentiation

  What’s the secret to keeping love and sex alive in a marriage? There’s no one best answer, and every couple is different.  But many sex therapists, myself included, talk about something called “differentiation” as a key factor.  Differentation means being able...