Men are different from women. Not just in their bodies — but in their minds and life experiences.
Men expect themselves to perform sexually. When a man feels he hasn’t performed well, it can feel like a defeat. He may doubt his manhood, and begin to avoid sex entirely.
I’ve spent more than 20 years of practice in New York City helping men overcome sexual concerns. My patients have included younger and older men; straight and gay men; men with sexual partners, and men trying to find a partner. Men seeking help for sexual problems, from a variety of causes, including erectile dysfunction (ED), premature ejaculation (PE), delayed ejaculation, and inability to ejaculate during intercourse. I have helped men suffering from lack of sexual desire – as well as from too much sexual desire, and from various forms of sexual compulsivity.
Most of these men have come to my office feeling hopeless. Most have told me afterwards that they felt grateful for a clearer understanding of the problem, and relieved to have gotten practical advice and a specific plan of action that made sense.
Real help, for men in the real world
Simple information about techniques for managing erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, or inability to ejaculate – sometimes these techniques, plus a few special exercises, are all a man needs to get back on track.
Sometimes more comprehensive help is needed. Problems such as low sexual self esteem; unhappy relationships; repeatedly ending up with the wrong kind of partner; hypersexuality; compulsive masturbation; other forms of sexual compulsivity (“sex addiction”); or loss of sexual desire may require longer-term treatment.
Often the best erectile dysfunction therapy is a combination of medication and psychological counseling. Premature ejaculation help is often best achieved by combining medication and psychological treatments. Sex addiction treatment often requires medication as well as therapy. I am committed to helping each of my patients in NYC to find the right treatment for their problem and to prevent it from recurring.
If a sexual problem has been making you feel bad about yourself…or has held you back from being with a partner…If you want practical solutions to get your life back on track…let’s talk.
Help for men who can’t ejaculate
Delayed ejaculation and inability to ejaculate during intercourse are under-recognized problems but relatively common ones. I have extensive experience helping men who can’t ejaculate easily to learn principles and techniques for successful lovemaking.